Mediation is an excellent way to have the tough talks about "what if". Let's face it, most people deciding to spend their lives together aren't planning to separate. However, we don't plan to have our house go up in flames when we buy insurance either. We plan for the worst and hope for the best. [...]
The Federal Child Support Guidelines allow for the sharing of "special or extraordinary" expenses for children, proportionate to their incomes. This is in addition to basic child support calculated under the Guidelines. The issue of what is "special or extraordinary" comes to court often. Even more frequently, this issue is part of out-of-court discussions, negotiations, [...]
Often when parties separate, they include a clause in their separation agreement that says spousal support can end or be reviewed when there is a "material change of circumstances". What does this mean if the payor chooses to retire? In the case of Walts v. Walts, Justice Minnema of the Ontario Superior Court of Justice [...]
The new year is a time to organize, and plan forward. We often make resolutions, trying to make this year better than the last. Separated parents can use this time to set expectations for the upcoming year, and avoid last-minute conflicts. If you already have a schedule in place for your children, you could look [...]
Advances in technology have brought huge opportunities for family mediation. Video and audio conferencing, and shared document and calendar programs provide options to separating couples that help them come to agreement and minimize conflict. In negotiating separation agreements, it is usually best to have the parties together in the same room, as the subtleties of [...]
It can be helpful when separating to consider different options and perspectives. I've put together a library of some resources that may be helpful. These are in no particular order, and different ones will resonate with different people. Parenting After Separation The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions So You and Your [...]
Many jurisdictions do not allow same sex couples to marry. Ontario does not differentiate between same sex and opposite sex marriage. Families are more and more mobile, and may move from one type of jurisdiction to another. This leads to interesting issues. If parties come to Ontario from a jurisdiction that does not allow them [...]
An Evening of Film, Refreshments, Appetizers, & Discussion of Family Law Dilemmas For: SOCIAL WORKERS, JUDGES, PSYCHOLOGISTS, MEDIATORS, LAWYERS AND COUNSELLORS Wednesday November 21st, 2012 5:00pm – 7:00pm Oakville Conference Centre 2515 Wyecroft Road Oakville, Ontario L6L 6P8 NO CHARGE TO PARTICIPANTS Lawyers are eligible for 1.5 substantive hours towards CPD requirements. The Program will [...]
The Ontario Court of Appeal, in Grosman v. Cookson, 2012 ONCA 551, decided that the fact that a support recipient files a separation agreement with the court for enforcement does not mean that the court can decide whether the amount of support should be changed if the parties have previously agreed to mediation/arbitration. In this [...]
What happens when parents have joint custody of a young child, and can't communicate regarding major parenting issues? Often, parties will agree to a dispute resolution process of mediation, followed by arbitration if there is no resolution through mediation. In the recent case of Wainwright v. Wainwright (2012 Ont. S.C.J.), the judge was quite concerned [...]